My Idea of a happy Family
When all people in the world become mature, they start to think about creating their new family. Choosing a husband or wife is one of the most important decisions in a person’s life because a good marriage can mean the difference between a happy and an unhappy life. It is not easy for them to find men or women who had perfect characteristic as their expectation because no one is perfect.
Some people have their parents arrange their marriages. Because they think that their parents may make a better choice than them. They are not only older but also wiser and they have been married. Therefore, they know better what qualities are desirable in a spouse. Furthermore, parents may be better judges of character than young people, who often let emotions influence their judgment. In particular, having parents arrange a marriage is financial security. Of course, money doesn’t automatically bring happiness, but a lack of money certainly causes stress in any relationship. As we heard a sentence which people always said as a joke but this word is meaningful for us to consider. This word is “Love does not need money but people need it to make their life happy”
For my idea, I agree with the reasons above but it also has some holes. A good marriage is coming from two people well aware of their couple’s mind. It means that they spend more time to find someone who is in their dream. Sometime marriage is under our option because parents may make a poor choice, and the young couple may never be happy together. Parents should let their children have a chance to make a decision but under control of them, for my family, they didn’t force me to marry anyone that I don’t know. They give rights to me to make decision because they think that I have to live with husband, not live with parents for the whole life. To pay for my parents’ kindness and to be a good child, if I fall in love with someone I would introduce him to my parents. If my parents like him, we will continue our love and try to know the feeling of our partner more and moar. Howver, we avoid doing anything breaking over good tradition and badly influence our partner more and more. However, we avoid doing anything breaking our good tradition and badly influence our family’s reputation. I wish to get married to a man who have true love, high knowledge, kindness, patience and wealth. For his beauty I don’t care but he must have good health.
Being a good husband, he must have a true love to my family and me. Furthermore, he also respect to my parent. He should discuss decisions with me. Therefore, we share the role of head of household. In addition, he should share my housework when he has free time. He is the head of our family because he worked outside the home to earn money. He must have a high knowledge, because it is very important for human life. Having high knowledge can make it easy to find a good job with high salary and make a proper decision in the way of our life. He also has a good communication to the neighbors and our relatives. Moreover, when the big and small problems occur he can solve it patiently in order to avoid violence because if he can’t control our anger, our family will lose properties and reputation. For instance, if we have a small conflict with our neighbor and use violence, we will face with the law of our country. If the neighbor is severely injured or dead in the conflict we will become the murder. As a result, we will be fined as money or sentenced in jail.
On the other hand, properties are important too. It means that if our family hasn’t enough money, how can we find happiness? Because all people have needs. No one in the world wishes to live under poverty because when we have much money, our life will be convenient. We can go anywhere as we can go anywhere as we wish, especially when we have disease we can go to the local popular hospital or abroad to cure our diseases. Having money makes our life longer.
For another thing, his appearance is not important for me but I wish a good physical and healthy man. If I chose the handsome man I will be afraid that another woman loves him and she comes to split our love, which leads our love to breaking up, so the future of the children will fall into a bad situation because the parents can’t advise them anymore. In particular, they can’t pursue their study until their graduation.
In conclusion, if in the future I have the opportunity to find a good man s I wish I would encounter a happy life. But if our wish doesn’t come true we will meet an unhappy life. So we must be ready to solve it, because marriages need effort, patience and perhaps a little bit of luck.
Some people have their parents arrange their marriages. Because they think that their parents may make a better choice than them. They are not only older but also wiser and they have been married. Therefore, they know better what qualities are desirable in a spouse. Furthermore, parents may be better judges of character than young people, who often let emotions influence their judgment. In particular, having parents arrange a marriage is financial security. Of course, money doesn’t automatically bring happiness, but a lack of money certainly causes stress in any relationship. As we heard a sentence which people always said as a joke but this word is meaningful for us to consider. This word is “Love does not need money but people need it to make their life happy”
For my idea, I agree with the reasons above but it also has some holes. A good marriage is coming from two people well aware of their couple’s mind. It means that they spend more time to find someone who is in their dream. Sometime marriage is under our option because parents may make a poor choice, and the young couple may never be happy together. Parents should let their children have a chance to make a decision but under control of them, for my family, they didn’t force me to marry anyone that I don’t know. They give rights to me to make decision because they think that I have to live with husband, not live with parents for the whole life. To pay for my parents’ kindness and to be a good child, if I fall in love with someone I would introduce him to my parents. If my parents like him, we will continue our love and try to know the feeling of our partner more and moar. Howver, we avoid doing anything breaking over good tradition and badly influence our partner more and more. However, we avoid doing anything breaking our good tradition and badly influence our family’s reputation. I wish to get married to a man who have true love, high knowledge, kindness, patience and wealth. For his beauty I don’t care but he must have good health.
Being a good husband, he must have a true love to my family and me. Furthermore, he also respect to my parent. He should discuss decisions with me. Therefore, we share the role of head of household. In addition, he should share my housework when he has free time. He is the head of our family because he worked outside the home to earn money. He must have a high knowledge, because it is very important for human life. Having high knowledge can make it easy to find a good job with high salary and make a proper decision in the way of our life. He also has a good communication to the neighbors and our relatives. Moreover, when the big and small problems occur he can solve it patiently in order to avoid violence because if he can’t control our anger, our family will lose properties and reputation. For instance, if we have a small conflict with our neighbor and use violence, we will face with the law of our country. If the neighbor is severely injured or dead in the conflict we will become the murder. As a result, we will be fined as money or sentenced in jail.
On the other hand, properties are important too. It means that if our family hasn’t enough money, how can we find happiness? Because all people have needs. No one in the world wishes to live under poverty because when we have much money, our life will be convenient. We can go anywhere as we can go anywhere as we wish, especially when we have disease we can go to the local popular hospital or abroad to cure our diseases. Having money makes our life longer.
For another thing, his appearance is not important for me but I wish a good physical and healthy man. If I chose the handsome man I will be afraid that another woman loves him and she comes to split our love, which leads our love to breaking up, so the future of the children will fall into a bad situation because the parents can’t advise them anymore. In particular, they can’t pursue their study until their graduation.
In conclusion, if in the future I have the opportunity to find a good man s I wish I would encounter a happy life. But if our wish doesn’t come true we will meet an unhappy life. So we must be ready to solve it, because marriages need effort, patience and perhaps a little bit of luck.
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